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TTC after loss update

Angie Tabz
39 posts
Mar 04, 2010
2:55 PM
Hi ladies,

As some of you know I lost my precious twins in May 2009 due to IC and pre-term labor. Devastated does not begin to express how I felt or what I have gone through this past year. It was my first pregnancy and spontaneous twins. I had to deliver them on the 20th and had a D&C in July 09. We started trying again right away and month after month nothing happened. I started charting my bbt, using ovulation kits, did it every day around ovulation....you name it we did it!

Last month I had a HSG, thank god tubes all clear. I thought that would be my month as you are more fertile after the procedure...nothing! I lost it. "That's it we're done!" I am tired of planning my life around TTC and the up's and down's that come with it month after month!

This past cycle went by much quicker, I kept temping and went to a fertility dr. to come up with a "plan" and then waited this month out.

The point of my story.....I'm pregnant. I tested this past Sunday, not sure why, but thought what the hell! It was positive. I am only 4 weeks and have a LONG way to go. I am excited but very very scared!

Thank you to all the wonderful ladies who have supported me in MANY ways over this past year and will hopefully continue as I am going to need it!

xo
Angie T.
mommyto5angels
55 posts
Mar 04, 2010
3:27 PM
angie-

I am so very happy for you! I wish you the best of luck!

Kelly
jennzoe
16 posts
Mar 04, 2010
4:17 PM
I truly wish you all the very very very best!! Lots of luck and prayers. Pregnancy seems like the longest 9 months for those of us that have lost babies!!
MAMAKATE
94 posts
Mar 05, 2010
4:00 AM
yay! Angie this is awesome news! I'm sooo happy for you! Rest as much as possible and stay as positive as you can, i know how hard it is. Congrats sweetie i will keep you in my prayers and i am always here to support you as you did for me during my pregnancy! Yay, yay yay! Im so so so excited for you!
Jasmine
28 posts
Mar 05, 2010
10:11 AM
So happy for you! :) Keep letting us know how you are doing!
Jasmine
Melissa
17 posts
Mar 07, 2010
11:17 AM
Wow, congrats! Yay, that's so exciting! It happens when you least expect it, doesn't it? Just take things one day at a time and rest when you need to. We'll all be cheering you on to the finish line.
Lily
56 posts
Mar 07, 2010
3:12 PM
Wow gives everyone hope and thats wonderfuol news

See how when pressure is removed things happen without expecting..

This is a lesson for all of us to try to adapt but like myself its very hard when all you think about is that you want a baby

Cant wait to here how your progress goes
Shandrea
176 posts
Mar 07, 2010
6:08 PM
CONGRATS! So HAPPY for you!
Andrea
118 posts
Mar 08, 2010
3:16 PM
How wonderful! I'm genuinely happy for you :) I know first hand the frusterations, so that makes me even more happy that you got a BFP.

Thank you for passing along the advice on my blog...we shall see where we go next. Wish us luck...maybe I will be following your lead.

HUGS
Sabrina
345 posts
Mar 08, 2010
3:29 PM
Congratulations! So happy for you :) You deserve happiness :)

Love and hugs to you!
Cobie
26 posts
Mar 09, 2010
12:45 AM
Congratulations sweetie! fantastic news!
i'm keeping everything crossed for you that the result of this pregnancy is a healthy baby.

i know it's hard to think positive (i couldn't really) but do try!

take care of yourself, rest when you need to. rub your belly for me!
xoxo
Angie H
32 posts
Mar 11, 2010
2:47 AM
Hi Dear Angie T

SO happy to hear the good news from you !
I will pray for you and wish you a happy pregnancy even if I understand that its easy to worry .
Thank you for sharing the news and giving us hope

Love Angie H
manda
17 posts
Mar 11, 2010
2:46 PM
What wonderful news! I wish you the best of luck. I'm thinking that both of us will have happy healthy babies next November!
Angie Tabz
41 posts
Mar 11, 2010
3:24 PM
You ladies never cease to amaze me! Thank you for all your well wishes and support. I am 5 weeks yesterday, uh the days are just creeping along....

I hate to say it because I HATE HATE HATED it when people said it to me (especially those who are not TTC or had a loss) BUT when you try not to obsess and let it go, it really does help.

Wishing healthy babies to all of us in 2010 & 2011!
JennLestage
3 posts
Mar 13, 2010
8:06 AM
Angie T-

Seems like you and I are going to be in the same boat. I just took a test last week and I am also pregnant!! :)
My husband and I lost our little exactly one year ago this month, and now we are 5 weeks pregnant! I wish you luck and a healthy baby in 9 months! (I also feel that each day is creeping by, I want to enjoy every minute, but the time could go just a little quicker, just until so we know our little one is healthy and strong!)

Love,

Jenn xoxo
Andrea
136 posts
Mar 13, 2010
9:26 AM
Jenn,

What wonderful news...so happy for you!

Hang in there and we are going to rally ALL you girls along...you, Angie T and Manda :)

It's good to hear "happy" news!

xoxo
Lee
55 posts
Mar 13, 2010
3:56 PM
Must be spring time, so many good news to go around. Congratulations to you deserving ladies. You give us hope.
momof3
289 posts
Mar 16, 2010
12:44 AM
Congrats!
Enjoy every moment as you go on this journey.
Bethany