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To: Donna

Andrea
122 posts
Mar 08, 2010
3:31 PM
Donna,

Hello my sweet angel friend,

I'm so happy to have just happened upon your post, as I think of you so very often. I've wondered many times how you were and how the healing process was going. I'm elated to hear your wonderful news of your engagement and upcoming nuptuials...a wedding, how fantastic!

Time does go by doesn't it? Sweet Ben is turning 3! I had no idea that he was so small, I had pictured him as being 5-6 years old, but 3, what a wonderful, sweet age! His party is going to be amazing, as you are the Mummy with the mostest :) I know he is going to have such fun!

I understand your daily thoughts about Olivia, as I think of Christian and how he would have just turned 3 months. I also think about the fact the 1 yr mark is approaching since we 1st conceived. No pregnancy news from here, just hopeful that I get some answers and a plan from my Dr this month, as I am going in for some tests, routine, nothing out of the ordinary. I'm HOPEFUL. Thank you for your encouragement and for thinking of me and offering your love, it means so much.

Please keep in touch, as I must see your wedding photos! Email me anytime at anhinteriors@yahoo.com or visit my blog at www.persuitofourfairytale.blogspot.com

Much Love to you and continued happiness in your life...you sound so good :) Makes me happy.

Happy Birthday sweet Ben! Enjoy the party and I can wait to celebrate 10-10-10 with you, your day that you share with Olivia forever. So sweet...

Hugs and Love
xoxo
Andrea
Donna
3 posts
Mar 09, 2010
2:24 AM
What can I say Andrea Life is wonderful one day and you feel you are moving on and then in a split second another traumatic time has happened in our life. Tony my husband to be lost his brother tragically last Friday in an accident. So all the excitment for Ben's birthday was gone and the thought of us going through another lose in March, a year apart when does it all end. So now I have a funeral to attend on Friday and I have to be there to support Tony just like he had to be there for me a year ago when we lost Olivia.

Andrea thank you for sending me your beautiful message I know we will get through this and I will become even stronger than before. I still have to think of my little boy and I also am so looking forward to my wedding.

Take care and I hope you will get that positive sign soon. You are a beautiful person who is so caring and deserves to be an earthly mum and you will I know that.

Love to you and big hugs
xxxx
Donna
Andrea
128 posts
Mar 10, 2010
8:30 AM
Donna,

Oh my sweet friend, I am so very sorry for the loss of your Fiances brother. When things happen so quickly with no warning it makes the grief that much stronger. I pray for you and your family at this difficult time...many prayers and I am deeply sorry for your loss.

As you say, you have to be strong for Tony, as he needs your support. I know that you will give him all the love he so needs right now.

Also, I know that you will do whatever necessary to ensure Ben's Birthday Wishes are fulfilled, because that's what Mommy's do. They put aside hurt to bring a smile to their childs face. You will do this Donna and you and Tony will navigate this together.

I'm glad you are looking forward to your wedding. You deserve the very best that life has to offer :) I know things will be absolutely beautiful and you will be radiantly stunning!

Thank you so much for always being in my corner and for being my champion, as it means the world to me. You have the sweetest soul and I know you are just as beautiful on the outside as you are on the inside :)

Much Love to you and my sincere condolances,
xoxo
Andrea