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When did it become funny?!?!?!
LeeLee
89 posts
Jun 28, 2010
12:53 PM
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I'm sorry but when did a miscarriage become funny? Why do guys always think that something can be turned into a joke??
my husband turns to me in the car and goes "You know I was thinking of saying something to my aunt kim but its in bad taste. I think you would even hit me for it."
Confused i go "What?"
"Remember how she kept saying our baby (the one i later miscarried) was troy (her soon who just passed on an overdose) well I guess that baby really was like him after all."
can I just say...... WTF????? I go hysterical in the car and I'm still so upset. WTF does that mean? The "joke" doesn't make any sense. I mean my god my baby died you A$$hole.
I'm sorry im in a blind rage. I wonder what the hell is wrong with guys.
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Trying to be Strong
32 posts
Jun 30, 2010
8:22 AM
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It's not funny. I'm so sorry. Yes, WTF to your husband. But then realize men grieve differently. Don't be upset with him. He's probably crying inside but can't on the outside. Humor is how some deal with pain. We, on the otherhand are so super sensitive about our loss. Almost 1 year later, I could cry on a dime. Hang in there, and cut him a break. I'm sure if he could have thought before he spoke and knew your reaction, He would have kept it in. He is your husband afterall, and I'm sure would never ever want you to hurt. He was just not thinking.
Sending you a hug,
Jenn
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wanda34
99 posts
Jun 30, 2010
10:01 AM
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thats not funny at all how very hurtful i would be angrey and upset men or other people dont understand unless they been through the pain men eh
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