Trying to be Strong
34 posts
Aug 01, 2010
4:43 PM
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Trying to be Strong
35 posts
Aug 01, 2010
4:49 PM
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I just took a test, I'm pregnant. I'm gonna lose it. I called my doc to go back on the pill last week, I was giving up. I'm afraid of telling my husband. I'm going away on Tues morn for 2 weeks, It's a repeat of last summer. I found out I was preg, went to visit family before seeing the doc and I lost the baby. My husband is so stressed with work, we're broke. All I wanted this past year was to be pregnant again, Now I'm scared s...! What if It's a repeat!! I can't handle that...HELP. Will my Doc get me in tomorrow, I go away on Tues. I can't breathe.. I prayed all year for this to happen. Now I cant breathe.
Jenn
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Shandrea
238 posts
Aug 01, 2010
9:07 PM
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First of all BREATHE! Take a deep breath and just take a second and relax. I know easier said than done. I know that this has to be one of the hardest scariest moments of life right now. But, you can do this. I know it's hard not to let the what if's come, but you are here and you are in this moment. yes the timing may be bad, but maybe this is your blessing, maybe this is your moment. You said you've prayed for it to happen. now pray that it goes well. ask God to give you strength, to heal your heart of the past hurts, to give you a clear and rational mind. if you can't get to the doctor then try your best and take it easy on your trip. I know, believe me i know this is hard, but i'm gonna say it anyway. Try your best to give it to God, when you pray cast your cares and concerns on him, it doesn't mean that you won't still have them but at least you will feel a little lighter b/c there will be a knowing that you aren't carrying them alone. Then decide if you want to tell hubby before or after your trip. I know what it is to be stuck between hope and fear, but try your best not to let the fear control you. I'm sorry i may be sort of all over the place, but i have so many thoughts going through my head for you that it's hard to get them in order. I hope you've understood and i am not confusing you. But i will be praying for you. you will get through this.
Sending you lots of hugs and love
shandrea
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Trying to be Strong
36 posts
Aug 01, 2010
9:59 PM
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Shandrea,
THANKYOU!!
No where to turn and there you are, like all the women here. God bless you. Thankyou.
I'm so glad I can come here and you will know exactly how I am feeling. I feel better. I'll let you know if I tell my husband. 12 years of marriage and I'm afraid to tell him once again, I'm Pregnant. Hey, I just smiled. I'm Pregnant. God Please bless my baby.
Thankyou,
Jenn
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Lily
86 posts
Aug 02, 2010
12:59 AM
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Wow Jenn congratulations but Shandrea words are perfect..do not fear..god has given you this gift again as he feels you have learnt from the last one..take it on with stride and knowing you can do it..you survived the fall last time so the concerns re finances etc will work itself out
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Trying to be Strong
37 posts
Aug 03, 2010
7:18 AM
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I saw the nurse yesterday, she confirmed I'm Pregnant. What a wonderful thing to say after what I've been through. Thankyou for bringing me back down to earth. I had knots in my stomach yesterday. I'm 4 weeks 4 days and due on my 13th wedding anniversary, also my late grandmothers birthday. She was the most important women in my life. I'm telling myself everything can only be ok due on that day. I'm reaching out for your prayers.
I told my husband and the stress has lifted. We will be ok. Please just pray for us. I need all of you, once again. Only you understand.
Jenn
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fergus55
26 posts
Aug 03, 2010
5:05 PM
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take it easy and enjoy the ride not matter what comes your way...i know after a loss its so hard to be excited again but its your turn to deserve happiness...keep up updated i love to hear such wonderful news like yours and hoping one day soon i can also post on here great news xox
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LeeLee
100 posts
Aug 03, 2010
6:16 PM
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It's so scary at first to get the news, but now you get to join all us nutty pregnant and scared shitless club! I;m praying for you and just know no matter what we are always here to talk to.
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Sabrina
361 posts
Aug 05, 2010
10:05 AM
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Congratulation! Take it easy and try to enjoy every second of your pregnancy. You and your little one are in my prayers.
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momof3
321 posts
Aug 05, 2010
1:34 PM
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Congrats!
Enjoy every moment of it, and don't focus on what can go wrong, but on what can go right.
And don't worry about the money end of things. Needs always get met- I know that for a fact.
Bethany
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Trying to be Strong
38 posts
Aug 07, 2010
7:10 PM
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Thankyou all for your support. Please understand how much I need you this time.
I had my levels done, Horray!! They doubled, like they are supposed to. I told my mom and 4 sisters the news, My sister had been feeding me all organic meals. I love her. I'm not telling anyone for a long time, but I need my familys support. I'm trying to take it easy on this family visit, but 11 kids total with my family all 10 and under. Taking a breather when I can.
On another note. I just cant believe it. Thankyou God. Thankyou God. For giving me another chance. I'm only 5 weeks and 2 days. Please help me pray.
Thankyou for understanding,
Jenn
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MAMAKATE
124 posts
Aug 08, 2010
8:37 PM
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jenn, lots of love and prayers for you sweetie!!!! I know how scared you are and your feelings are completely valid... take it all a day at a time...please let us know how you are doing.... updates are always welcome!!!!!!!
love, katie
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sara28
49 posts
Aug 09, 2010
6:27 AM
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you're not alone and I understand how you feel.
I just said a prayer and will continue to do so...being 6 months into my own pregnancy, I absolutely relate to your fears...I thought it was too good to be true and then convinced myself something would go wrong. I'm even sitting hear doing kick counts (even though I'm only 26 weeks and my doctor didn't tell me to)and freaking out that they aren't good enough. Along with a healthy pregnancy, I also prayed that you stay calm and enjoy it (two things I just can't do).
Best wishes and lots of continued prayers are being sent out for you and my other prego sisters. ...and CONGRATS!!
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