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Trying to be Strong
40 posts
Aug 20, 2010
8:33 AM
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After a co-worker announced to me she was preg, I told her, so was I. Please don't tell anyone, I'm not sharing for a long time. I found out last night she told my boss. WTF, My ultrasound is next week, Until I see a heartbeat I wont be convinced I'm pregnant. If something goes wrong will she fill him in on that too. I denied to him that I was. I'm so angry with her, sure she's a 20 something first time pregnant girl. But I'm not, I went through the worst time of my life last year after my mc.And she knew it. I'm torn between taking her head off, and trying to let it go, because I dont need that stress. I'm trying to do everything perfect until I see a heartbeat. I've had a pretty hard few weeks, I want to be happy I'm pregnant but don't want to get my hopes up. She has added unnecessary stress to my life.
Jenn
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Lee
91 posts
Aug 20, 2010
11:35 AM
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First, congratulations in getting pregnant.
Second, I would let it go, and not waste anymore time on her and just concentrate on not stressing out too much which I know is very difficult when you have lost babies in the past.
I think what she did is highly inappropriate and wouldn't be surprised even illegal since it had to do with confidential medical information. But anyone who is clueless enough to spill the bean like that is obviously very not together kind of person. I would not share anything with her going forward, lesson learned and just move on.
It's hard since we spend so much of our time at work, but I think the key word here is co-worker. They are not our friends unless you are very intimate with them, they are people we work with and best to just keep a professional relationship with them.
It's not worth it to get upset over, just look forward to a positive ultrasound, you deserve it.
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louie
3 posts
Aug 20, 2010
3:05 PM
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Try and let it go babe. stupid little girls. my 21yr old neighbour is pregnant too and told people at 7 wks. it was a week after i had my mc. I also had my mother inlaw that has told people, all 3 times i've been pregnant. I have never been so angry. my heart nearly jumped out of my chest. not to say then she had to tell them i mc in later weeks. I KNOW how your feeling.
I have a ok relationship with my boss and now after the 2nd mc, i have decided to keep her in the loop if i fall pregnant. just to have someone at work that know what i'm going threw.
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SandDevil6
216 posts
Aug 27, 2010
10:05 PM
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Hi Jenn,
Congrats on the pregnancy.
And I'm going to have to say I agree with Lee and Louie. As much as it upsets you, pisses you off, whatnot, she's not worth the time or your energy. Try to let it go and ignore her.
She may have thought that she was doing a favour or that it would be best to tell the boss what was going on - but I would maybe tell her how your feeling about it.
Best of luck on the ultra sound. I hope it goes great! Take care, and keep us update. We're here for you.
Jenn
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