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Rachael on March 9, 2010 at 10:09 AM said:

Hello,Im 27 i found out nov.17,09 the day after my b-day i was pregnaut.and this would have made my fisrt child. I went to the doc. when i was 6 weeks and they seen the baby and said they heard the heart beat. I went back when i was 12 weeks and they couldnt find anything or hear anything they seen blood flow but didnt know where it was going to she said it looked as if the baby could be hinding but another doc. came in and said that i have had miscarriage.But i didnt see how cause i hadnt had any sings of one. So i didnt know where to turn so i went to see another doc. He explaned things to me better he said my sac was damaged and i was gonna have a miscarriage.On jan.12th 2010 I had it naturally on my own it was painful and sad .I Actually passed the baby and that was the saddest thing to have to go through.Its been 2 months since this has happend and i have been trying again but nothing I was hopeing i was this time but i got my period today.It still makes me sad to this day and i cry. IM so depressed. Its sad to see my friends with babies.But i know God has something in store for me i just dont know what it is yet. But Im hoping my day will come soon for me to become a mommy

Anonymous on March 3, 2010 at 02:12 PM said:

On feb 22, 2010 I had a miscarriage and I feel as if it is my fault. At first I was excited about having a baby but now I am sad because me my boy friend kept arguing about the baby. Now that they baby is gone and I have to get a (D&C)cleaning to clean out my cervix I am now sad as before when he was mad about the baby. I know God knows best but I sure feel bad though.

Alison on March 2, 2010 at 07:31 PM said:

We've been married 4 years and have had trouble in this area our entire marriage. I finally got a positive pregnancy test January 23...we were ecstatic and in disbelief! But...on February 13, after a week of bleeding and the day before Valentines Day, we lost the baby...or babies. The day before, the doc saw two sacs in the ultrasound...but unsure if the other was another baby or a blood clot. So, now I'm still bleeding and hormones are getting the best of me and I feel crummy. I wish I could find some understanding in all this.

Beth on March 2, 2010 at 05:34 PM said:

My husband & I had been trying for over a year & a half to get pregnant. Then on Feb 18, 2010 we got a + pregnacy test & knew that our dreams of becoming parents was fianlly coming ture. We was so excited & thrilled that we were going to become parents. Then on Feb. 26, 2010 I started having a brown discharge & went to the doctor & to only find out that everything was okay & we got to see our little baby on the ultrasound. It was so amazing & love at first sight. Late that afternoon, I started spotting so I called the doctor & they said it was normal after a pevlic ultrasound. Well.... bleed heavy all night until the morning. We went to the ER only to find out that at 6 weeks & 1 day we had lost our baby, we was heart broken. Why? We didn't know but we know how this empty space in our heart where we once held the love of our baby. We are going to trust in God that he will bless us again soon. We are going to put faith in him that he will see that we will have a strong & healthy baby one day. We are going to try again when we can.

Abby on March 2, 2010 at 11:21 AM said:

I became pregnant again unexpectedly in November 2009, when our first baby was just 5 months old. My husband and I were so very excited even though the pregnancy was not planned. I didn't 'feel' pregnant this time, but I think it was because I was distracted with taking care of a baby already. We moved 6 hours away from all our families in January when my husband was stationed at another military base. 5 days after we moved, I started having a brownish discharge and then began bleeding heavily. I was 9.5 weeks. At the ER they told me that the HCG levels in my blood indicated that there had been a baby but that it had probably died a week or so before I started bleeding. When we found out we were pregnant again we bought a "Parents to be 2009" ornament for our tree...we decided that every year we will place that ornament up at the top of our tree where an angel would go to remind us of our little angel. The tiniest of footprints have been left on our hearts forever.

We currently are trying to concieve again.

Fatima on February 25, 2010 at 06:18 PM said:

I had a miscarriage this year in January, I'm supposed to get my period this month, but I still haven't. Is this normal. If you have experience this please contact me at ftluna@yahoo.com

Jennifer on February 20, 2010 at 11:11 AM said:

Thank you for this website. I was wondering when it is safe to have sex again after a miscarriage. Maybe I missed it since I did not read everything yet. I appreciate the different perspectives. It helped me to feel "normal" for having the one I do right now. I can't figure out if I will ever get over this if I don't have another baby. Or if a baby will even help. UG! This just happened 5 days ago for me, so I need to give myself time.

susan on February 19, 2010 at 05:30 PM said:

i so glad this website is here, this is the third time i've wrote on here and when i feel sad and like no body understands the pain i'm in i know i can read other stories on here and everybody will understand how i feel. on feb. 7th of this year, i had my third miscarriage i've been trying to have a baby for some time now. this time i had a vanishing twin and the dr. told me that my body would get rid of the twin and the second baby was healthly and it was for awhile. every time i went in the baby had a healthy heart rate and the last ultrasound i had i actually saw the baby moving i was so happy that my dream of being a mother was going to come true. all i want in life is a baby of my own. then at 12 weeks my nightmare happened for the third time i lost my baby due to a miscarriage. i have so many questions that can't be answered. each time this happens i can not believe the pain it caused me but this time ithas been unbearable pain. i would love to know why this keeps happening to me, i love all these babies so much. i sit and wonder what my babies would look like and wished so much that i was able to hold them. i pray they know how much there loved by there mom and dad and how much we(me and their dad)wanted them to be with us.

nancy on February 17, 2010 at 06:28 AM said:

hello, i am worried, ive had 3 miscarrieges,i was diagnosed with herpes HVS 2, please is there anyone that has gone thru this and had a healthy preganacy. any recommendations or doctor that may help.

Dawn Olsen on February 11, 2010 at 06:02 PM said:

2 years ago I had an early miscarriage at 4 weeks. Last year it happened again at 20 weeks. I went through 3 hours of labour and little Ashley passed away 2 minutes after being born. I am terrified to have to go through that again. Many months later and I still cry. I will never ever forget that experience. It feels like it was just yesterday. It helps to know that others have gone through it too even though the doctors have not given me a reason. Although Ashley is not here today, she will remain in my heart forever.

Gabrielle on February 11, 2010 at 11:02 AM said:

My husband and I got pregnant after nine months of trying. We were newlyweds and this was our first baby. We both sat on the floor and cried tears of joy. A few days after my first obgyn appt I started bleeding. We had an ultrasound and it showed no heartbeat, i was nine weeks pregnant. We both cried and held each other, how is it possible to be so happy one day and completely devestated the next. I can't explain the emotions, it affects your whole life. The doctor said to wait three months before trying again and that was the plan. I immediately got pregnant again. I had my blood drawn to check my hcg numbers. The number was good. I had my blood drawn a second time and the number had dropped. The nurse told me over the phone it looked like I wad going to miscarry. I started bleeding that same day. I had lost my two babies in less than two months. The first on oct 12, and the second on dec 7. It has been two months and I still cry often. I think of them every day and I will for the rest of my life. I had tests done and they all are normal. The obgyn and reproductive endocrinologist. I went to said to try again. I hope and pray with all my heart that we can have a full term healthy baby. The only thing that gets me through the day is knowing that they are in heaven with Jesus and when I get there I will be able to be with them. I know it's hard, but try to be hopeful. And remember it's ok to cry. I wish everyone the best of luck ang you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Sunny on February 10, 2010 at 04:21 AM said:

I had an IUD in place. This wasn't supposed to happen. To my best recollection my last cycle started Dec18th. By Feb 1st I took a test that came back positive. In the last week I have given blood twice which showed a rise in HCG but my second US yesterday showed an empty gestational sack. They say I'm measuring at 5 weeks and I should go back again on Friday to be sure but the doctor says, "I'm leaning toward the fact that it's not viable." The last 10 days have been an emotional roller coaster. I went from thinking "I'm ok cause I have an IUD' to "Oh my god I'm pregnant, what am I going to do" to "If after all this I'm pregnant it's meant to be" to "Please GOD don't take this baby from me." Two nights ago my 6 year old kissed my stomach before bed and said, "good night, new baby!" I am devistated on so many levels and pray for the best.

Nancy N.N on February 8, 2010 at 12:33 AM said:

My husband and I are a young couple and are so eager to have our first baby. We have had two missed miscarraiges hence 2 D&C surgical intereventions in 1 year.It hurts so bad.Certainly,only God knows why.

Claire on February 4, 2010 at 02:17 AM said:

I visited my local hospital yesterday after having what seemed like a light period for a few days. At six weeks pregnant I knew this wasn't a good sign. In the few days leading up to the hospital appt I started to feel my symptoms weakening and had begun to think the worst. Even that didn't prepare me for the moment that my consultant told me my womb was empty and I had experienced a complete miscarriage. I was in a state of shock. Only 2 weeks before I had four positive pregnancy tests and the test I did with the consultant yesterday was negative. All I have been able to do is cry for the last 24 hours but I do have a wonderful partner who just keeps holding me. I once saw these lines on a child's gravestone and today I find them more poignant than ever.

'A rae of sunshine came and went, a beautiful treasure only lent'

Bianca on January 31, 2010 at 10:35 PM said:

I found out I was pregnant and was of course so nervous but at the same time excited. My boyfriend and I tracked how big the baby was, and what things were developing through different stages. I was about 11 1/2 weeks along when I began bleeding. I lost the baby and was completely devastated. I could not even leave the house because everytime I saw a woman who was pregnant I would just cry and cry and cry. Then, a week exactly after my baby was gone, my boyfriend decided that he did not want to be with me anymore. I lost the two people closest to me in this world, and still to this day I don't know what to do. I cannot seem to get over it and I don't know what to do anymore.

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